Aren't we exhorted in scripture to honor certain people in the church? So what's wrong with publicly recognizing the good things people do? As I see it, appropriateness is really the point that requires discernment. As I study this subject it seems that God is most concerned with care and respect when he uses the word "honor". Especially of certain groups who are special in terms of their service to the church and the Lord. This would certainly include anyone serving the church like deacons, small group leaders, teachers, volunteers and "doubly" so pastors and elders. We should and indeed are commanded to hold those serving the Lord in the highest regard.
Where I think we need to be very careful especially with our youth, who we are still training, is in recognition, especially public recognition. “Honor” can often times be confused with man-centered public recognition. Similar to the way movie-stars, sports figures and other famous people are often put on display and made the center of attention. This man-centered recognition is not how God's servants are to be honored. We live in a world where pride is celebrated. Self-esteem is promoted. Ego is puffed up and man is central. It is very easy for temptations of pride (envy, judgment, gossip, slander, boasting, and self-righteousness) to seep into the church from a world that “normalizes” these sins.
We need to be very careful that our “honor” is appropriate. Applauding preaching or the offering of worship music are examples I would consider inappropriate. Also, giving people public awards or recognition because of a work of grace in their life, although intended to give glory to God, can too often focus attention on man and create prideful temptations. The value and effect of these practices should always be carefully considered.
As we know, any good work we do is not of us but of God and at best, tainted by our impurity. And any good work we do is not generosity but duty. So publicly recognizing good works or good behavior seems dangerous and unwise. Certainly private communication of works of grace in our youth and even adults can be a source of encouragement or gratitude and I would commend that.
What do you think?